Making sense of patterns in romantic relationships through attachment style

Our early experience in life with parents (and separation from them) has an influence on how we form and maintain relationships (our ‘attachment style’). This can then have an impact in adult romantic relationships, sometimes resulting in patterns. This article [here] descries attachment styles and the impact that they can have. This article [here] has information that may help you to reflect on your attachment style.

The effects of stress on the brain

The article [here] describes in some detail the effects of stress on the brain. ‘Biofeedback’ is mentioned in the article which, in my experience, is an older (rather than new) form of therapy that is not currently widely available in England. However, the advice in the article: ‘face your fears, be more active, watch what you drink’ is sound general guidance. The article describes this guidance in a little more detail.

Bigorexia - Seeing yourself as being smaller or less muscular than you actually are

The is an increasing emphasis in young men on having a muscled, toned body. With this pressure, there appears to be an increase in ‘muscularity-orientated disordered eating behaviours’. These involve eating more or differently to gain weight and ‘bulk out’. If left unchecked, this can develop into a ‘body dysmorphia’ where individuals develop a distorted view of their body. The article [here] discusses how an example of this, ‘bigorexia’, can occur where individuals see themselves as being less bulky than they actually are.

What is dyspraxia?

Dyspraxia is a disorder affecting physical co-ordination, for example how well we are able to use a screw-driver or cutlery. It can also affect speech, which of course involves co-ordination, as well. This article [here] talks about the condition. If you want to know more and find out about getting help, this link [here] to a national charity may be helpful.

Being 'bipolar'

Otherwise referred to as manic-depression, a number of famous people have experienced this clinical condition. This article [here] lists some current celebrities who report being 'bipolar'. The article also briefly describes the symptoms and possible treatment options. 

Postpartum psychosis

This condition is sometimes confused with ‘baby blues’ or postnatal depression. However, it is a much more serious condition that can involve experiencing hallucinations and delusions. This article [here] describes the symptoms relating to the condition and this one [here] describes one mother’s experience of this together with her journey to recovery.

What is chronic fatigue?

Chronic fatigue syndrome or myalgic encephalomyelitis (CFS/ME) is a long-term, neurological condition. Symptoms include tiredness, muscle or joint pain and flu-like symptoms. It is often confused with other conditions. This article [here] provides a brief overview of the condition and treatment options for it.

Running to recovery

The benefits of exercise on mental health are well established. There have been several earlier posts on this blog regarding the topic. This article [here] looks at the possible causes of this relationship. It also describes how to integrate exercise into healthcare. Do you have an opportunity for increased exercise that you can take advantage of? A couple of schemes are mentioned in the article. Perhaps a similar one exists that is local to you?

Diabulimia: A deep dive

Diabulimia is a condition that involves someone with type 1 diabetes deliberately not taking their insulin treatment in order to control their weight. This article [here] describes the issue and suggests that up to 40% of these diabetics at some point restrict their insulin for this purpose. Diabulimia is dangerous and this article [here] tells the tragic story in a person’s own words (via their diary) of some-one who died from it.